Hi Everyone, we are the Kania's out off the Office!
We believe that if the world is so mixed and rich on cultures. Why not to keep mixing it a little bit more like we do? Therefore, follow us and learn all those differences that mixed couples can bring, learn together and around on this Mixed World!
Giving an overview on who we are: Edith and Thomas, a not so long relationship couple - 5 month - and also Engaged - 4 month ago. Just because, even in such a short relationship, Thomas showed me and convinced me that he was the right man for me.
Thomas is a man with Polish origins, who moved with his family to Germany at the age of 5, and in Germany until today. He went to school, he grew up with in a tiny but warm family and friends. His Childhood was the normal type of rascal kid looking for trouble. I mean, a high percent of kids are like this. However, as a grown-up he became a prepared and hardworking man, who knew and searched in life what he always wanted, to be a good human being.
Thomas is a man that at first sight you might say he is a shy-nice guy with sort of military type - as I call it - as at first, he seems to be too serious and not so talkative. However, after some chat and time with him, you get to realised who he really is. A nice familiar man with a warm heart, very friendly, welcoming smile and very smart. He is a total gentleman, caring person, responsible and very bad at remembering things like birthdays, or what happened yesterday. Pointing on the last part, he is just a simple man, like many others, they do which for them are meaningful, and if things for them have no value or are not worth it, then he just deletes them and forgets them, so easy. Like, those things that have been spoken or solved or I don't know, but erased and ciao!
Thomas is a man that at first sight you might say he is a shy-nice guy with sort of military type - as I call it - as at first, he seems to be too serious and not so talkative. However, after some chat and time with him, you get to realised who he really is. A nice familiar man with a warm heart, very friendly, welcoming smile and very smart. He is a total gentleman, caring person, responsible and very bad at remembering things like birthdays, or what happened yesterday. Pointing on the last part, he is just a simple man, like many others, they do which for them are meaningful, and if things for them have no value or are not worth it, then he just deletes them and forgets them, so easy. Like, those things that have been spoken or solved or I don't know, but erased and ciao!
I need to point out that last phrase, and don't get me wrong, I don't write this because he is my couple, I meant it seriously. Thomas is a smarter man, more than me... maybe because he watched too many documental in life - me joking... He can be that smarty, but I am the clever one. That said, let's go into who am I. I will allow Thomas to take the keyboard and write it for me, and ask him to do it without thinking that he is my couple.- To be honest, he can be veryyyy honest!
Edith is a tropical Latina girl from the Dominican Republic, who moved to Germany by 2014 to pursue her dreams and plans of life. She is the youngest of 3 sister, and the youngest a total of 6 girls from her dads side - I said 6!. As a child, she went to normal school, she grew up in between a very artistic and active life between working on TV, acting and dancing on stage, adventuring around and traveling to visit her families and friends abroad.
The trues is that woman has many good qualities, and not just because I am his couple I get to see them, but surely others like her friends can agree with me, I am right. To describe her there are tree aspects you will notice right away, She is extremely creative, sweet and sensitive from nature. Nonetheless, she is passionate to what she does, very talented, TOO hyperactive - it stays in big caps, as I really mean it.
Edith is the most positive and big dreamer I’ve ever met. She always had big dreams, and so far, she have achieved them all. Something that makes me proud to have met her. For instance, people who knows her, also know how multitasking she can be or that she can't stop speaking - making fun of her face while I write and she seats next to me. However, any person will love to share with her and won't ever be bored on her presence.
Something I discovered and no one who knows her would believe it, she has a shy side. I am a shy man when comes to socialise with other, Edith, no way! She has excellent skills, she loves to be surrounded of people and friends, and make new friends, what for me takes me time. Then I have two questions. First, how a person who is like all this can be shy? - I will tell you: when it comes to speak German - she is a five languages girl - and next to me, she gets shy and even nervous. If, she is with other people alone and I am not around, then she feels comfortable and can totally manage the situation quite we'll. Second question, how is that even possible? I can find an answer myself, as when we first met we only spoke German at least for about a month until we switch to English, not because of her, but me.
The trues is that woman has many good qualities, and not just because I am his couple I get to see them, but surely others like her friends can agree with me, I am right. To describe her there are tree aspects you will notice right away, She is extremely creative, sweet and sensitive from nature. Nonetheless, she is passionate to what she does, very talented, TOO hyperactive - it stays in big caps, as I really mean it.
Edith is the most positive and big dreamer I’ve ever met. She always had big dreams, and so far, she have achieved them all. Something that makes me proud to have met her. For instance, people who knows her, also know how multitasking she can be or that she can't stop speaking - making fun of her face while I write and she seats next to me. However, any person will love to share with her and won't ever be bored on her presence.
Something I discovered and no one who knows her would believe it, she has a shy side. I am a shy man when comes to socialise with other, Edith, no way! She has excellent skills, she loves to be surrounded of people and friends, and make new friends, what for me takes me time. Then I have two questions. First, how a person who is like all this can be shy? - I will tell you: when it comes to speak German - she is a five languages girl - and next to me, she gets shy and even nervous. If, she is with other people alone and I am not around, then she feels comfortable and can totally manage the situation quite we'll. Second question, how is that even possible? I can find an answer myself, as when we first met we only spoke German at least for about a month until we switch to English, not because of her, but me.
Now, taking back the keyboard from Thomas, it is clear there are so many things we can speak about ourselves. However, we can't say all in one single post or this would end like a long „listing“ - how my closest friends says when I start writing messages without stopping.
We will come back to you on further posts about us, and explaining how or why we clicked, made decisions of moving together or even to marry so fast. We would like to share with the world what, how and why differences and mixed culture couples are so special and strong at a same time.
Kisses from Us & until our next post.
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